Frequently Asked Questions...
Where is The Thirteenth Floor located?
The 13th Floor, and all of its exclusive facilities, are for the
private use of our guests only. We are located in a secluded,
yet centrally-located, convenient area in the Dallas
/ Fort Worth Metroplex. To maintain our guests' privacy, our
address is provided only to our guests when they make a
reservation to attend a party.
Is there a dress code?
We do not have a formal dress code as we want you to feel
comfortable when you visit us. However, we strongly suggest that
you dress to impress – wear something you would consider
appropriate for any
night on the town. Because we are a private home, the
ladies may wish to dress more provocatively then they might when
going out in public.
We do not allow men to wear sleeveless shirts or tank tops. We
also ask that you avoid wearing baggy, saggy, torn or otherwise
inappropriate jeans. We also do not allow gang-related articles.
Many ladies like to change during the evening, and we
do provide a changing area with lockers (You must provide your
We do allow dress shorts.
What are the invitation requirements?
All guests must be 21 years of age or older. Guests must have
proof of age, and those without proper identification will not be
allowed on the premises. Please visit the rules page for guest
requirements. We reserve the right to deny entry onto the
It's our first time. What should we expect?
The most important thing to understand is that nothing is ever
expected of you. Our guests are very respectful creating a
comfortable enjoyable atmosphere. You are ALWAYS in control. We
encourage you to go at your own pace and do only what you feel
What are the guests like?
While our guests range in age from 21-70, on most nights the
average age is between 35 and 45. Our
guests are very friendly and respectful, creating an atmosphere
that is relaxing and comfortable. Our crowd is very diverse in
every way and we are certain you will others who are just like
Are people aggressive or pushy?
No. Our guests are very respectful of one another. 'No' means
just that, 'no'. We rarely have to ask anyone to leave due
to inappropriate behavior, but when necessary we do so in a calm
but firm manner. While it is very rare, you may find that
another guest makes you feel uncomfortable. Please seek
out a staff member as we cannot fix the problem unless we know
What time should I arrive?
First time guests MUST arrive between 8:30 pm and 11:00 pm. This
allows us time to give you a tour of the house, spend a few
minutes on a brief orientation and have you complete our adult
consent form. This way we get a chance to meet you, show you
around, and address any questions you may have before it gets too
hectic. Valid picture IDs are required for first time guests.
While our deadline for new guests is 11:00 pm, for the best
experience we recommend your arriving before 10:00 pm. Returning guests are asked to arrive after 8:30pm and prior to
midnight. In order to allow us to complete party preparations,
our doors will not open until 8:30pm.
Am I obligated to stay if I take the tour?
While we certainly hope you will decide to stay, we know that
the 13th Floor is not the place for everyone. After taking the
tour and/or listening to our brief orientation, please feel free
to leave if you feel that is the right decision for you. We will
wish you well, and you will be welcome to come back and join us
another night if you decide to do so.
What are the various nights like?
We do have theme parties from time to time where individuals may
dress for the occasion or not. Check our Events page. Wear your
grass skirt and coconut shell bra on the Hawaiian Get Leid
Night, or your jeans and boots on Western Night. Other nights
just dress in comfortable clothing and enjoy yourself. You can
expect about 50 to 80 couples on an average Saturday night.
Friday night parties are smaller (from 40 to 60 couples), but many couples enjoy this
less busy environment. There are always some single women in
attendance and a limited number of select single males.
Are single men allowed?
We allow a limited number of single males on Friday evenings.
Single males wishing to attend one of our parties should click
on the single male button at the bottom of this page and follow
the instructions on that page. On Saturday evenings single males must be sponsored
by a couple attending the party that evening. The sponsoring
couple must let us know when they make their reservation that
they will be sponsoring a single male that evening. Please note
that the sponsored male may not arrive before the sponsoring
couple and must leave when the couple leaves. The sponsoring
couple is expected to assist us in making sure that their single
male guest behaves in a gentlemanly manor. They are also
required to be sure that their single male guest leaves the
premises when they do.
What is the smoking policy?
We have smoking & non smoking areas. There is absolutely no
smoking in the bedrooms. We do ask that those that smoke cigars
or clove cigarettes to limit their smoking to the patio.
Why should we consider attending?
We acknowledge the importance of developing relationships with
others and encourage you to take the opportunity to mingle and
converse with others. We maintain a comfortable number of
couples at each of our events. We do not discriminate based on
race, creed, nationality or physical appearance; however, we
work hard to ensure that everyone's preferences are acknowledged
Are our names ever given out?
NO! Your name, address, phone number, and other personal
information are personal and kept confidential. We never give
them out to other guests, and we do not sell or rent our mailing
What about drug use?
Any illegal substances are prohibited both in the house and in
the parking area, and offenders will be immediately removed from
the premises. Don't subject yourself and others to any legal
What if I find myself in an uncomfortable situation?
Always remember, No means No. Don't ever be embarrassed or
afraid to use those words in an uncomfortable situation. Do not
ever do anything tonight that you will regret in the morning.
You are here to have fun. Being forced is no fun, and not
tolerated. If anyone persists, talk to us immediately so we can
take care of the situation. If you are unable to find Len or
Wendy, please go to the DJ booth, and the DJ will find someone to
assist you. Please do not wait until the following day to inform
us of a problem as it is usually difficult to figure out what
guest you may be referring to and exactly what occurred.