Frequently Asked Questions...

Where is The Thirteenth Floor located?

The 13th Floor, and all of its exclusive facilities, are for the private use of our guests only. We are located in a secluded, yet centrally-located, convenient area in the Dallas / Fort Worth Metroplex. To maintain our guests' privacy, our address is provided only to our guests when they make a reservation to attend a party.
 
 
Is there a dress code?

We do not have a formal dress code as we want you to feel comfortable when you visit us. However, we strongly suggest that you dress to impress – wear something you would consider appropriate for any night on the town. Because we are a private home, the ladies may wish to dress more provocatively then they might when going out in public.

We do not allow men to wear sleeveless shirts or tank tops. We also ask that you avoid wearing baggy, saggy, torn or otherwise inappropriate jeans. We also do not allow gang-related articles.

Many ladies like to change during the evening, and we do provide a changing area with lockers (You must provide your own lock).

We do allow dress shorts.
 
 
What are the invitation requirements?

All guests must be 21 years of age or older. Guests must have proof of age, and those without proper identification will not be allowed on the premises. Please visit the rules page for guest requirements. We reserve the right to deny entry onto the premises.
 
 
It's our first time. What should we expect?

The most important thing to understand is that nothing is ever expected of you. Our guests are very respectful creating a comfortable enjoyable atmosphere. You are ALWAYS in control. We encourage you to go at your own pace and do only what you feel comfortable doing. 
 
 
What are the guests like?

While our guests range in age from 21-70, on most nights the average age is between 35 and 45. Our guests are very friendly and respectful, creating an atmosphere that is relaxing and comfortable. Our crowd is very diverse in every way and we are certain you will others who are just like you.
 
 
Are people aggressive or pushy?

No. Our guests are very respectful of one another. 'No' means just that, 'no'. We rarely have to ask anyone to leave due to inappropriate behavior, but when necessary we do so in a calm but firm manner. While it is very rare, you may find that another guest makes you feel uncomfortable.  Please seek out a staff member as we cannot fix the problem unless we know about it. 
 
 
What time should I arrive?

First time guests MUST arrive between 8:30 pm and 11:00 pm. This allows us time to give you a tour of the house, spend a few minutes on a brief orientation and have you complete our adult consent form. This way we get a chance to meet you, show you around, and address any questions you may have before it gets too hectic. Valid picture IDs are required for first time guests. While our deadline for new guests is 11:00 pm, for the best experience we recommend your arriving before 10:00 pm. Returning guests are asked to arrive after 8:30pm and prior to midnight. In order to allow us to complete party preparations, our doors will not open until 8:30pm.
 
 
Am I obligated to stay if I take the tour?

While we certainly hope you will decide to stay, we know that the 13th Floor is not the place for everyone. After taking the tour and/or listening to our brief orientation, please feel free to leave if you feel that is the right decision for you. We will wish you well, and you will be welcome to come back and join us another night if you decide to do so.
 
 
What are the various nights like?

We do have theme parties from time to time where individuals may dress for the occasion or not. Check our Events page. Wear your grass skirt and coconut shell bra on the Hawaiian Get Leid Night, or your jeans and boots on Western Night. Other nights just dress in comfortable clothing and enjoy yourself. You can expect about 50 to 80 couples on an average Saturday night. Friday night parties are smaller (from 40 to 60 couples), but many couples enjoy this less busy environment. There are always some single women in attendance and a limited number of select single males.
 
 
Are single men allowed?

We allow a limited number of single males on Friday evenings. Single males wishing to attend one of our parties should click on the single male button at the bottom of this page and follow the instructions on that page. On Saturday evenings single males must be sponsored by a couple attending the party that evening. The sponsoring couple must let us know when they make their reservation that they will be sponsoring a single male that evening. Please note that the sponsored male may not arrive before the sponsoring couple and must leave when the couple leaves. The sponsoring couple is expected to assist us in making sure that their single male guest behaves in a gentlemanly manor.  They are also required to be sure that their single male guest leaves the premises when they do.
 
 
What is the smoking policy?
 
We have smoking & non smoking areas. There is absolutely no smoking in the bedrooms. We do ask that those that smoke cigars or clove cigarettes to limit their smoking to the patio.
  
 
Why should we consider attending?

We acknowledge the importance of developing relationships with others and encourage you to take the opportunity to mingle and converse with others. We maintain a comfortable number of couples at each of our events. We do not discriminate based on race, creed, nationality or physical appearance; however, we work hard to ensure that everyone's preferences are acknowledged and respected.
 
 
Are our names ever given out?

NO! Your name, address, phone number, and other personal information are personal and kept confidential. We never give them out to other guests, and we do not sell or rent our mailing lists. EVER!
 
 
What about drug use?

Any illegal substances are prohibited both in the house and in the parking area, and offenders will be immediately removed from the premises. Don't subject yourself and others to any legal problems.
 
 
What if I find myself in an uncomfortable situation?

Always remember, No means No. Don't ever be embarrassed or afraid to use those words in an uncomfortable situation. Do not ever do anything tonight that you will regret in the morning. You are here to have fun. Being forced is no fun, and not tolerated. If anyone persists, talk to us immediately so we can take care of the situation. If you are unable to find Len or Wendy, please go to the DJ booth, and the DJ will find someone to assist you. Please do not wait until the following day to inform us of a problem as it is usually difficult to figure out what guest you may be referring to and exactly what occurred.